Mantra

Over the years, I have found a saying I learned while working for Gap that has stuck with me. OWN IT. DO IT. DONE. I interpret it as follows:

**Own what you do. Believe that anything is possible,

**Do it to the best of your abilities and challenge yourself to be better.

 **Done. Accomplish your tasks, learn from them and share your experiences with others.

These 5 words have followed me everywhere in my career. I wish I could remember the original mindset taught to me while I was with Gap, but I like to think the it was meant to change along with you and metamorphosis into what you want it to be. I know I have shared the words with many throughout the years.

I often ask people what they say over and over in their minds to keep them going. What do they say to themselves to keep motivated through good times and bad? I have found that many share the same mantra. The value I take from that is that everyone works hard and believes in themselves. A no brainer. Especially when no one else does. The word fighter is something I have heard a lot in my day. I am. I fight for the right to think for myself and support others. This may sound crass and a bit harsh, but I have experienced a lot of haters out there. I never understood why. If my business is successful and my team is tenured and my customers keep coming back, why am I constantly being penalized for standing up for myself, my processes or my teams?

Maybe it was the MY in that last statement. I always loved to try things differently from the rest. After all, I had been managing stores for a very long time and had experienced many different scenarios. Some processes work and others don’t work as well. I personally like the ones that work and work for the better. This attitude often brought on problems with superiors. Again, why? Maybe because it wasn’t what everyone else was doing. Maybe it was because they never believed in me. Maybe it was considered a threat to the status quo. Not sure. I am not saying to be a fighter, but we all have incredible ideas. It is important that we don’t let them disappear because we may not feel comfortable in how others may take that idea. This happens too often and frankly I am sick of it. Aren’t you?

At any given time, we have the innate ability to own our problems, our issues, our behaviors and finally our legacy. We get to own the processes we put in place to lead, to generate strength and to fulfill promises we made to our teams. Our legacy should be to finish with grace, respect and fortitude. This is a mantra I share with all of you. Be you. Embrace new ideas. Don’t be frightened by the idea that you may not be in the right or your idea may fail in action. We learn from experiences and grow from them no matter what the outcome. Own up to you.